Today was one of those days where I just wanted to sleep in all day. But no, I had to go to school. The first two weeks of school were so exciting, I loved it. Now, it's such a drag. Although today's class went by fast. We were talking about human development. Intimacy. Attachment. Bonding and what not. It was interesting.
This girl in class asked the professor for advice on her relationship. The girl told the professor (and the whole class) that she's been talking to this guy for 2 weeks now, and she finds herself pushing him away. She said she doesn't understand because he's a very nice guy, he's friendly, he's family oriented. (In my head I thought to myself, he seems pretty decent to me ... why wont she pursue the relationship?) She then asked the professor if the saying "we have a connection" really exist. The professor said that, that saying doesn't exist in psych. Then the professor told her that if it doesn't feel right, then don't pursue anything. But then again, the professor also said that its too soon to come to any conclusions since they've only been talking for 2 weeks.
Anyway. They kept going on and on. Dating, Relationships, Marriage is all so complicated! And don't give me that "Oh, it's only complicated cause you make it that way bull****" Cause that's crap! I think that everyone at one point in their dating life, or relationship, and marriage go through some kind of couple crisis moment, right? I mean, how can everything be so perfect and candy coated all the time. That's NOT real. (In my opinion) I mean, that's how we learn and grow, right? We learn from our mistakes and experiences.
Men ... just tells us what your intentions are. Make our lives a little less complicated. Yes?
This girl in class asked the professor for advice on her relationship. The girl told the professor (and the whole class) that she's been talking to this guy for 2 weeks now, and she finds herself pushing him away. She said she doesn't understand because he's a very nice guy, he's friendly, he's family oriented. (In my head I thought to myself, he seems pretty decent to me ... why wont she pursue the relationship?) She then asked the professor if the saying "we have a connection" really exist. The professor said that, that saying doesn't exist in psych. Then the professor told her that if it doesn't feel right, then don't pursue anything. But then again, the professor also said that its too soon to come to any conclusions since they've only been talking for 2 weeks.
Anyway. They kept going on and on. Dating, Relationships, Marriage is all so complicated! And don't give me that "Oh, it's only complicated cause you make it that way bull****" Cause that's crap! I think that everyone at one point in their dating life, or relationship, and marriage go through some kind of couple crisis moment, right? I mean, how can everything be so perfect and candy coated all the time. That's NOT real. (In my opinion) I mean, that's how we learn and grow, right? We learn from our mistakes and experiences.
Men ... just tells us what your intentions are. Make our lives a little less complicated. Yes?
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