I went to work today, I was running late like usual. I clocked in on time, like usual hahaha These past two days I've been spending quality time with one of my co workers at work! We've been catching up and what not. She was telling me about issues with her boyfriend, and how they broke up and got back together. How he made her cry. Then she was telling me how he makes her smile! It's a love and hate kind of thing. Today she was telling me that her and her boyfriend were talking about their christmas gifts. He asked her what she wanted. She got upset because she feels that he doesnt need to ask her what she wants for xmas. (This is the part where men say: "Well, WTF we're not mind readers!") She feels that he should already know what she wants because they spend so much time together. She knows what she's going to get him for xmas because she listens to him when he says that he needs this or that while they hang out. Anyway, the point is that they got into a minor argument about it. Then she asked me what I thought.
I agreed with HER. I mean, if I spent a lot of time with a boyfriend I would expect him to have a CLUE of what I would want for xmas. Giving him a list of what I want for xmas is just effortless and lame. I want to know that he took the time and the effort to get me something that HE thought I would love. My co worker told me, "If he gets me a gift card I swear Karla, I will never use it and I'll be so upset with him!" hahaha She's funny. But its true! Gift cards should only be used as an emergency! The emergency being that you absolutely could NOT find ANYTHING for that person! THEN a gift card would be ok.
Speaking of significant others, I went out with two of my co workers last night. We went to dinner at Uwink at H&H. (I'll explain the food experience later) We started talking about whether or not a girl should take that first step to initiate something with a guy. One of my co workers said that the guy should be the one who should always initiate it. My other coworker said the opposite! She said that we are in different times now, and that girls are allowed to do the initiation too! I on the other hand agree with both sides. I think its great that a guy will step up to the plate and ask a girl out for tea or for her number. I also think that its great that girls have the balls to ask guys out for tea or for their number (A perfect example of this is, IMBOYCRAZY.com! I love that bitch! and her stories! They're inspiring! Read her blog and you'll understand what Im trying to explain here) So, which one is the "right" one?! Should the guy ALWAYS initiate things or is it ok to mix things up a bit and have the girl do the initiating?! ::sighs:: Sometimes we make things more complicated than they should be. Seriously.
The reason why I brought this topic up at dinner was because someone I met a couple months ago asked for my number a couple days ago. (It sounds weird that I met him a couple months ago and he asked for my number MONTHS later. But its because I rarely see this person! lol) Anyway, the whole process of me giving him my digits never fell through because I was rudely interrupted. After that, everything just went to hell! :( The question is, should I just sit around and wait OR is it my turn to do whole initiating part? Confusing, eh? Text me what you think, since you guys like to text me instead of leaving a comment here! (Yes, Im talking to YOU Cynthia! hahaha)
In other news, I got an email today from a man who asked to use my footage from the deftones show a couple days ago so he can make a video with it. I said sure. He later sent me a link with the video that he made. It was pretty cool. Its pretty much my footage with another footage of the pit in the end. He said, "...That was the big pit that I'm sure was pressing you against the barrier lol" haha YES that was them that caused my bruises aches and pains! A couple minutes ago my mom saw my bruise on my elbow and she said "It was worth it huh?" I said "YES!!!!" Then she slapped my arm hahaha I think I'm going to take my mom to go see THRICE on Tuesday. I know she wants to go, I can tell lol
This is the part where I'm going to explain what happened at dinner last night. So, we all ordered burgers. The deal at uwink is that you use a computer to order your meal and you get to customize it and what not. So, I asked for my burger to be on wheat bread with avocado. When they brought my burger, it was on white bread with no avocado and the bread was cold and stale. I cut the burger in half and it didnt have avocado. They charge $1.50 for avocado. So, I wasnt about to pay for something that I didnt get/order. After a WHILE of waiting the man comes to our table and I explained to him that I wanted to cancel/get my money back. He said ok. All I had was water and a couple fries. The deal breaker for me was the bread! Ugh, You know when a piece of bread is about to expire and it starts to break off real easy? Well, that's how the bread was! Then I started thinking, "Eww, how long have they had this shit back there for?" If the white bread was warm and fresh, I would have eaten it. Eating white bread instead of wheat bread wasnt that big of a deal. But that shit was cold and gross. So, NO.
Goodnight everyone! I have class tmrw mrng :( But THEN Im going to see THRICE at the Avalon!!! Teppei wont be there unfortunately, due to a death in the family. But, it's still going to be AMAZING! I hope everyone out there is enjoying every minute of their life cause I know I am! I know bills and drama put a stop to some things that we want to do, but fuck it! You only live once! This weekend has been more than I can ask for! Ive witness 2 amazing shows that people would literally KILL to be at! I feel more than honored to fucking see all those artist in ONE stage for ONE cause! Love it!!
Ok, Im done. BYE!
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