This morning had to be one of the craziest mornings that I have ever had. I'm not going to go on to full detail, but I got a text from my boyfriend around 5am ish telling me that he was lost, he didn't know where he was. He had gone to his sisters party the night before and he got really wasted. I immediately started to get worried and anxious. After he finally made it home he got stopped by the cops while he's talking to me on the phone, I hear the cop ask him who we was talking to and he said "Im talking to my girl" Then the cop clicked on me. I called back several times and NOTHING I text him, and NOTHING. I couple hours later he calls me and explains to me what happened. At that point I was just angry because he scared the shit out of me and I was worried like crazy. Then we start arguing and yelling. Then he apologized, and said something dumb that made me laugh lol After we said our goodbye's I realized that, that was out first fight. He was yelling, I was yelling, he kept asking why I was mad, I kept yelling my answer to him lol Im sure that qualifies as a fight. Now we're fine :)
Today a friend told me that she had an affair for 6 months while she was still with her partner. I couldnt believe it. These two have been together for almost 5 years (I think. Or maybe 4 years) and all those years just went to hell. THATS MY #1 FEAR of being in a relationship. Having spent all that time and energy into a relationship for so many years and BAM! It can be over in a blink of an eye. That's very scary to me, like you have no idea! I asked my friend why she cheated and she said that her partner started to ignore her, started acting different with her, and started spending more time with other friends. So, she turned to someone else for companionship. The whole explanation and story that she told me was just unbelievable. Now that I'm in a relationship, stories like these make me want to keep my eyes even wider for "red flags" so they say. In the other hand I dont want to turn into this controlling psycho girlfriend.What to do, what to do. It's a little tough to balance out one's time between friends and your partner. If one doesnt spend enough time with their partner, then there goes the drama. If one starts cutting back on time spent with friends, then there is also drama!
Yesterday I was talking to one of my co workers and she was telling me how her and her boyfriend met each others families. It was so interesting to hear HOW it all happened. He was scared to meet her family because he was in jail for 3 years prior to being with her. He was concerned of what her family was going to think because of his time in jail. Then SHE was scared to meet his family because he told her that they were very judgmental. After meeting each others families they both felt relieved in a way. Both of their families were happy with the other person :) Then my co worker started telling me about a fight that they had a while ago. As she was telling me, my tears were coming down my cheeks. It was so sad. I put myself in her situation and I just started crying, then she started crying. At the end, they resolved it and moved on. After work we walked to our cars and they were building a huge tent behind our job. It was SO nice! They had the biggest chandeliers covered in roses! It was beautiful! Today I passed by the tent after work and my other co worker asked what was going on, and they told us that it was for the after party for the premier of "Valentines Day." :) Im sleepy :(
'Nite "Nite
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